{"id":2993,"date":"2023-12-18T22:46:52","date_gmt":"2023-12-18T22:46:52","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.designswarm.com\/blog\/?p=2993"},"modified":"2023-12-18T23:36:29","modified_gmt":"2023-12-18T23:36:29","slug":"end-of-year-review-5","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.designswarm.com\/blog\/2023\/12\/end-of-year-review-5\/","title":{"rendered":"End of year review"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Thanks to\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/www.girlwonder.com\/\">Prof. Dr. Molly Steenson<\/a> for initiating this habit in 2005.<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>What did you do in 2023 that you\u2019d never done before?<br \/>\nI started quiet quitting some bad habits.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<ol start=\"2\">\n<li>Did you keep your New Years\u2019 resolutions, and will you make more for next year?<br \/>\nI\u2019ve given up on those I think.<\/li>\n<li>Did anyone close to you give birth?<br \/>\nNo<\/li>\n<li>Did anyone close to you die?<br \/>\nA friend lost her mum.<\/li>\n<li>What countries did you visit?<br \/>\nAshamed to say my travelling did pick up this year.<br \/>\nBy train: Locarno, Paris, Rotterdam, Amsterdam.<br \/>\nBy airplane: New York City (for work), Nice &amp; Venice.<\/li>\n<li>What would you like to have in 2024 that you lacked in 2023?<br \/>\nA bit more of that unbearable lightness of being I hear so much about.<\/li>\n<li>What date from 2023 will remain etched upon your memory?<br \/>\nMarch 5<sup><sup>th<\/sup><\/sup><\/li>\n<li>What was your biggest achievement of the year?<br \/>\nHelping <a href=\"https:\/\/superflux.in\/#\">Superflux<\/a> build an exhibition for IKEA in Manhattan where I\u2019d never worked before.<\/li>\n<li>What was your biggest failure?<br \/>\nDe-conditioning after years of an active lifestyle.<\/li>\n<li>Did you suffer illness or injury?<br \/>\nLower back pain for the first time ever (possibly sciatica)\u00a0and my voice changed (thankfully benign).<\/li>\n<li>What was the best thing you bought?<br \/>\nA few bits from <a href=\"https:\/\/www.jolinejolink.com\/\">Joline Jolink<\/a> in Rotterdam and too many earrings.<\/li>\n<li>Whose behaviour merited celebration?<br \/>\nWomen in Iran.<\/li>\n<li>Whose behaviour made you appalled and depressed?<br \/>\nToo many to name. Also don\u2019t feed the trolls.<\/li>\n<li>Where did most of your money go?<br \/>\nProbably <a href=\"http:\/\/www.40maltbystreet.com\/\">40 Maltby Street<\/a> again although my patronage of <a href=\"https:\/\/dauns.co.uk\/\">Dauns<\/a> is also getting out of control.<\/li>\n<li>What did you get really, really, really excited about?<br \/>\nMy first 10 day break in years.<\/li>\n<li>What song\/album will always remind you of 2023?<br \/>\nThe new <a href=\"https:\/\/titk.cargo.site\/\">This Is The Kit <\/a><\/li>\n<li>Compared to this time last year, are you:<br \/>\nMore calm.<\/li>\n<li>What do you wish you\u2019d done more of?<br \/>\nCycling. I miss it.<\/li>\n<li>What do you wish you\u2019d done less of?<br \/>\nWorrying about things I can do nothing about.<\/li>\n<li>How will you be spending Christmas?<br \/>\nChristmas Day lunch with J. who\u2019s let me crash his family do for the second year in a row.<\/li>\n<li>Who did you spend the most time on the phone with?<br \/>\nJ.<\/li>\n<li>Did you fall in love in 2023?<br \/>\nI did, and I have the scars to prove it. It was an absolute disaster but I have no regrets. You can\u2019t win if you don\u2019t play.<\/li>\n<li>What was your favourite TV programme?<br \/>\nStarted watching very old tele recently (the first series of both Sex and the City and Friends).<\/li>\n<li>Do you hate anyone now that you didn\u2019t hate this time last year?<br \/>\nNo.<\/li>\n<li>What was the best book(s) you read?<br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/The_Passenger_(McCarthy_novel)\">The Passenger<\/a> and <a href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Tomorrow,_and_Tomorrow,_and_Tomorrow\">Tomorrow, and Tomorrow, and Tomorrow<\/a> were very different but great.<\/li>\n<li>What was your greatest musical discovery?<br \/>\nMy Design Council colleagues and I still share a Spotify playlist and there\u2019s been a lot of excellent pop in it.<\/li>\n<li>What did you want and get?<br \/>\nA chance to hang out with my nieces and show them my town.<\/li>\n<li>What did you want and not get?<br \/>\nA chance to share my holidays with someone special.<\/li>\n<li>What were your favourite films of this year?<br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/T%C3%A1r\">T\u00e1r.<\/a><\/li>\n<li>What did you do on your birthday, and how old were you?<br \/>\nIt\u2019s this weekend and I\u2019m having a posh brekkie with J. and going to the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.tate.org.uk\/whats-on\/tate-modern\/yayoi-kusama-infinity-mirror-rooms\">Yayoi Kusama Infinity Rooms<\/a> in Tate Modern.<\/li>\n<li>What one thing would have made your year immeasurably more satisfying?<br \/>\nBetter quality sleep.<\/li>\n<li>How would you describe your personal fashion concept in 2023?<br \/>\nMenopause chic. Trying to rock some lipstick a little more often.<\/li>\n<li>What kept you sane?<br \/>\nConversations with J.<\/li>\n<li>Which celebrity\/public figure did you fancy the most?<br \/>\nNo time for that. (same answer for the last 10 years)<\/li>\n<li>What political issue stirred you the most?<br \/>\nThe UK government\u2019s handling of LGBTQ+ issues.<\/li>\n<li>Who did you miss?<br \/>\nM. who died 2 years ago.<br \/>\nDad who died 8 years ago.<\/li>\n<li>Who was the best new person you met?<br \/>\nHave loved gossiping with R. and leaving M. voice notes.<\/li>\n<li>Tell us a valuable life lesson you learned in 2023.<br \/>\nYou don\u2019t have to say yes to everything. Not everything you say yes to is a good idea.<\/li>\n<li>Quote a song lyric that sums up your year?<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<blockquote><p><em>L&#8217;amour s&#8217;en va comme cette eau courante<\/em><br \/>\n<em>L&#8217;amour s&#8217;en va<\/em><br \/>\n<em>Comme la vie est lente<\/em><br \/>\n<em>Et comme l&#8217;Esp\u00e9rance est violente<\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>(Not quite lyrics but a part of a poem by <a href=\"https:\/\/writing.upenn.edu\/library\/Apollinaire_Mirabeau.html\">Apollinaire<\/a>)<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Thanks to\u00a0Prof. Dr. Molly Steenson for initiating this habit in 2005. What did you do in 2023 that you\u2019d never done before? I started quiet quitting some bad habits. Did you keep your New Years\u2019 resolutions, and will you make more for next year? I\u2019ve given up on those I think. Did anyone close to&hellip; <a class=\"more-link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.designswarm.com\/blog\/2023\/12\/end-of-year-review-5\/\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">End of year review<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[108],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2993","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-personal","entry"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p41XhY-Mh","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.designswarm.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2993","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.designswarm.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.designswarm.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.designswarm.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.designswarm.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2993"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/www.designswarm.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2993\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2998,"href":"https:\/\/www.designswarm.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2993\/revisions\/2998"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.designswarm.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2993"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.designswarm.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2993"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.designswarm.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2993"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}